2025 IFSCTraining

Wait, What Am I Doing?  
Even those who have been Constellators for a long time sometimes wonder: What the hell am I doing? Students often complain that they struggle to explain their work and articulate their offer. As a result, some slip into a cookbook approach and out of creativity.

Much of my relationship with Bert Hellinger was spent finding words for his vision. I have spent the intervening years finding words for mine. In this session, we will begin to understand our own individual voices and find ease with our uniqueness. I will offer exercises to anchor understandings.

Students will explore: How their systemic background affects their professional foreground When blind spots in the family create anxiety in the work How agenda suffocates curiosity Ways to communicate the work so we’re not always preaching to the convertedT

Shadow Constellations syllabus Lesson
1: Shadow Constellations basics
* Shadow work basics,
* Shadow archetypes
* Shadow identification process
* Basic Shadow Constellations practice in pairs.

The orders of love and the orders of helping – a powerful unity for healing
 
Usually, these two principles are handled and studied as two different entities.
In combination with each other they form a powerful unity that guide us through the whole process of our transgenerational service – from the first encounter with our client to the constellation and the aftercare.
In this workshop we will have a look at these principles and how to invite them to become an integral part of our profession.

Learning Goal: many of the themes that come up during the work are provoked by often generation old traumatic events. Depending on the stability of the participants it can lead to powerful triggers of own old trauma or those of family members. Someone triggered has no capacity to „understand“ the constellation and needs our attendance to be able to leave the group as relaxed as possible. 
Learning how to read a participant is triggered is vital to create a safe and healthy atmosphere while working. 
 Several key elements can be easily learned to stabilise a participant.

INTERVIEWING AND WHAT TO SET UP:
 
This workshop explores the essential skills of interviewing and setting up a Family Constellation. Participants will learn to attune to a client’s language—how they describe family and events—while observing subtle and not-so-subtle body movements and breath. The session will emphasize listening beyond words and discerning what wants to emerge.
We will also explore the art of precisely setting up a constellation, using only what is essential. Participants will practice selecting key representatives to create a clear and impactful field, allowing the hidden dynamics to surface naturally. Through experiential exercises and live demonstrations, this workshop will deepen your ability to facilitate with clarity and sensitivity.